Catlady, I know "JERK" isn't a problem for you--or anyone else. It's a harmless, everyday word--no one even bats an eye, in public or private, when they hear it. DON'T CONFUSE THAT (creep, dork, jerk, etc) W/ REAL "NAMECALLING LIKE "WIFEBEATER, JA*OFF, PR*CK, AS*H*LE," ETC.
Words like that...