If Yudansha's story is true (not meaning to cast any aspersions, Yu, but such stories are usually met with much scepticism here), he still had a duty to behave with grace and dignity, which he failed to do (in this example). Bad manners are never excusable, for any reason, especially by someone in the public eye.
-TD, starting to get irritated by apologisism
-TD, starting to get irritated by apologisism