heavy heart

[CARMEN]

as i sit hear typing i have been praying to god and asking why me what is going on i have been friend with this pearson for 3 years and though i know most of this is my fault because i am to nice i had to kick out my friend she was not willing to get a job and what money she did have not all of it came to me my heart has not felt this pain before like a deep wound in my heart i thought we wher friend but if she is my friend why why dose she not do any thing ,i never gave up on her becase that is how i was bult i guess i i aways had faith that she would do something never wanted to get to to this point with her she is my soulmate best frien and i know that i guess thats why it hurts MAN THIS IS HARD TO LET GO I'M SO MAD i soooo needing to vent today not sure how but i will get through this even if its 1 min at a time i will miss friend i do worry what will happen to her when i'm gone blah

 

[Sue]

It sounds like you had to make a tough choice. It might be what she needed to turn herself around and start to be more of a giver than a taker, it sounds like she has been taking advantage of your generous nature.

Keep taking each minute as it comes, you will get through this time.

 

[halkush]

Sounds like you are really into a co-dependant relationship with this friend.
sometimes it's hard but we have to be cruel to be kind.
Tough love is the right move with this friend.
Say a prayer for her and let her go, she is in god's hands which are far better to handle than yours.
read all you can about co-dependancy and there is group therapy for relationships like yours with this friend called CODA. look it up on the internet. it helps.
Love and peace,
Halkush

 

[Anneliese]

I had a friend long time ago, who used to call me at all hours of the day and told me she is thinking about taking her life!!

One night I went there and dragged her to the hospital and when I heard her talking to the doctor denying everything she said to me on the phone, I told her not to call me anymore, if that is what she wants to do, I will have no part of it!!

She quit calling me and is still alive today!!

Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind and get thru to some people!!

It is a hard decision to make, but in order to help some people you have too!!

 

[ORANGATUANG]

I think every one has had an friend like that ...i had to tell one to get on her broom an couple of years ago no one stabs me in the back and gets away with it ..havent heard from her since and dont give an horses butt either..

 

[steven seagal's_girl]

hey friend,i will pray for you and your friend..you did the right thing..you will realize you helped her more then anyone could and now its up to her..just cuz things went the way it did doesnt mean that she doesnt love you or you dont ove her..she will see thatyou did the best you could for her and someday she will realize that and one day she will thank you for it...sorry i know not much help..you take care friend and if you need someone to talk to i am here for you.hugs,Andrea