How can I use His Ways to get through?

Chef

New Member
I was posting to a member and I said use His Ways to get through. Perhaps the member might not know what of His Ways to use. This is a chance for anybody to post a problem and ask. How can I use His Ways to get through? The members here who have a excellent grasp of His Ways can give the member help. Not everybody knows everything. In the bigger picture perhaps He Himself will visit and give how he would use His Ways to help a fan/member.

Feel free to post a His Ways question:
Example: After a time at my employ I was being treated badly..verbally instead of being the shining star to help and make thing better being progressive I had become the victum acting like a dog with my tail between my legs. I used His Ways to not be the victum to hold my head up and remember that I am here to be a help to make things better. I found peace in thinking this and using His Ways.

If I didn't know of His Ways I might have gone on feeling bad.

Jim USA
 

Anneliese

Happy go Lucky
Well Jim, I don't know if I used "His Way" today or not?

But here is the story:

For some time now I have been very disappointed with a "certain person", who came up with stories that are out of this world.To say the least. And today I was fed up and very angry with hearing all those lies and I was going to say something not very nice.

But before I did do that, I took a very long breath and calmed down and took a little while to think about it!!

I did tell that "certain person" what I am thinking about all those madeup stories and lies but in a way that was to the point and still decent!!:)

I am glad now I did it this way because that "certain person" is not worth it to loose my temper over it or forget my manners. My Mom taught me better!!:)
 

Sue

c/o naughty corner
I think I used His Ways

A friend is going through a bad time and being hurt by others she used to trust as friends. I am giving her as much support as I can which is limited to words and prayers but I think in His Ways you always give people the benefit of the doubt and trust them.

What does an ounce of compassion cost? There is no world shortage of it and it's not something that should ever run out.
 

sandersmc

Member
I guess i use his ways without trying, this is not to be big headed or anthing like that, but in general, i feel i have been brought up with the basics in life and i have built on these basics myself to be a caring and helpful considerate and respectful person, this is not something i try to do daily i don't think about these things consciously i just do them.

I treat everyone with the same respect whatever there background, and try to help people daily in my life wether it be small things like helping someone with there baby and pram at the station up the stairs with there shopping (HEAVY!) when everyone else is so busy to get home or just giving up my seat on the train, or larger issues like just lending a ear to my friends or family and just listening to them and hearing there troubles or helping out when someone is ill and sick.

I have been told that i am too clean and straight and i need to be more rough and also only today actually i was told by someone at the gym i need to look less smart and not so clean and tidy all the time, maybe they are right, (But i have to wear a suit to work dosen't everyone look smart in a suit!)

so to wrap it up yes i use and apply the thinking and ways to some extent daily without really thinking.

So If anyone is in london on here, i am the very smart guy (apparantly in the light grey suit say hi if you see me :)

Thanks for reading guys

Take Care

Martin
 

Anneliese

Happy go Lucky
There is a difference between a person that needs compassion,support,attention and understanding because he/she is going thru a rough/bad time in their life and an "attention seeking" person that will go to extreme to get the attention they so desperately crave and need.

And the wisdom is to know the difference!!

It might take awhile to see the difference , but sooner or later you will know.
 

irish coleen

Steve's Lucky Charm
Thanks for sharing

I just want to say thank you to you all for sharing your life experiences and how you dealt with your situations at the time. I am not long on board but I will, when i am ready, shall share my own life experiences and how i developed good coping skills in order to survive. I used to always put others first and myself always last BUT I have learned to start to care for myself and that is good. Each day brings a different story but today I am a very happy person and I hope that I will be able to project positive vibes to all my new friends in the SS community.

I do recite the Serenity prPyer when I can:

God grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change
Courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference.
 

Chef

New Member
irish coleen;189893 said:
I just want to say thank you to you all for sharing your life experiences and how you dealt with your situations at the time. I am not long on board but I will, when i am ready, shall share my own life experiences and how i developed good coping skills in order to survive. I used to always put others first and myself always last BUT I have learned to start to care for myself and that is good. Each day brings a different story but today I am a very happy person and I hope that I will be able to project positive vibes to all my new friends in the SS community.

I do recite the Serenity prPyer when I can:

God grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change
Courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference.


You are special
 

Martina Taft

Steven Seagl Fan #1
Thax for sharing you r experiences by becoming good people by your self. If it could be of any help iwould like draw a parraple: A man was talking to a cow and asked him if it was feeling cold standing outside all day? The cow replied why would it be warmer inside?

I let you figure out the essens of the story by your self.
 

Chef

New Member
Martina Taft;190093 said:
Thax for sharing you r experiences by becoming good people by your self. If it could be of any help iwould like draw a parraple: A man was talking to a cow and asked him if it was feeling cold standing outside all day? The cow replied why would it be warmer inside?

I let you figure out the essens of the story by your self.

Excellent input MT thanks I hope many who need to think of His Way for their personal needs will see your excellent post. Please stay in touch you input is wounderful.

Cheers,

Jim USA
 

Chef

New Member
irish coleen;189893 said:
I just want to say thank you to you all for sharing your life experiences and how you dealt with your situations at the time. I am not long on board but I will, when i am ready, shall share my own life experiences and how i developed good coping skills in order to survive. I used to always put others first and myself always last BUT I have learned to start to care for myself and that is good. Each day brings a different story but today I am a very happy person and I hope that I will be able to project positive vibes to all my new friends in the SS community.

I do recite the Serenity prPyer when I can:

God grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change
Courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference.


It is wonderful to hear you recite the Serenity Prayer. I do also for many years.
 

Chef

New Member
irish coleen;189893 said:
I just want to say thank you to you all for sharing your life experiences and how you dealt with your situations at the time. I am not long on board but I will, when i am ready, shall share my own life experiences and how i developed good coping skills in order to survive. I used to always put others first and myself always last BUT I have learned to start to care for myself and that is good. Each day brings a different story but today I am a very happy person and I hope that I will be able to project positive vibes to all my new friends in the SS community.

I do recite the Serenity prPyer when I can:

God grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change
Courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference.


I love the prayer. I think you could share Now
 

Chef

New Member
I used His Ways to think beyond myself. I found that if I took the me out and only thought of Him and His Ways it would work out but also there had to be no time frame.

I added DON'T THINK ABOUT IT TO LIVE IN THE NOW.

At this monment there is a good point and if I am pulled back to think of how bad things are I don't think about it I just think in the Now.

THat helped me get though more than one day recently by using His Ways.

Cheers to all

Jim USA
 

Chef

New Member
Chef;191940 said:
I used His Ways to think beyond myself. I found that if I took the me out and only thought of Him and His Ways it would work out but also there had to be no time frame.

I added DON'T THINK ABOUT IT TO LIVE IN THE NOW.

At this monment there is a good point and if I am pulled back to think of how bad things are I don't think about it I just think in the Now.

THat helped me get though more than one day recently by using His Ways.

Cheers to all

Jim USA

I used all of His Ways today. I had a dream about a work situation then found the opportunity to use this in a work situation that allowed me to Win a conversation that made things better. I didn't wait I used the info
 

irish coleen

Steve's Lucky Charm
Nice to reflect on our lives, where we are at right now and where we are going ! I made a huge life changing decision, six months ago and now, looking back, I am sooo glad ! Today, I am a very happy person, six months ago, I was not. I believe that I no longer need to carry any burden on my own and by using His Ways, life can only get better !
 

tigerfeet

Tigerfeet
That's great to hear Colleen!
It's quite awe-inspiring to think how lives can change- how we can change our own lives just by reflecting, remembering and acting upon His Ways.
I hope that things just keep getting better and better for you!
 

irish coleen

Steve's Lucky Charm
Thank you very much, Tigerfeet for your kind words of encouragement. I am a bit crazy, I know, but your avatar photo of 'our guy', seems to be listening and taking onboard on what I am saying !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (its that look on his face - awesome!)
 

Chef

New Member
irish coleen;192428 said:
Thank you very much, Tigerfeet for your kind words of encouragement. I am a bit crazy, I know, but your avatar photo of 'our guy', seems to be listening and taking onboard on what I am saying !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (its that look on his face - awesome!)

How do I use His Ways today is Why do I need to use His Ways. Thank you for helping me remember why I know of His Ways. It is because I have searched for a person to show me the way because my father was taken away from me and I had no role model. I had to look hard for guidence wherever I could find it. Once I found His Ways my search was made so easy. It was like sitting in a comfortable rocking chair and watching the World go by.

Yes I use His Ways and thanks to my wonderful Irish friend I was able to connect my need of His Ways with the use of His Ways. and why I understand His Ways so well.

All tthe best,

Cheers,

Jim USA
 

Chef

New Member
irish coleen;189893 said:
I just want to say thank you to you all for sharing your life experiences and how you dealt with your situations at the time. I am not long on board but I will, when i am ready, shall share my own life experiences and how i developed good coping skills in order to survive. I used to always put others first and myself always last BUT I have learned to start to care for myself and that is good. Each day brings a different story but today I am a very happy person and I hope that I will be able to project positive vibes to all my new friends in the SS community.

I do recite the Serenity prPyer when I can:

God grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change
Courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference.

Hi IC,

You are a special friend and your happy way is a example of His Ways. No need to open up to much just enjoy the you that is you.

Sorry it took so long for me to develop the reply to your post. I knew it was in me. It just took my brain a long time to figure out what I needed to post. It was so simple I overlooked it. You are a wonderful person with a great happy way about you.

Cheers,

Jim
 

tigerfeet

Tigerfeet
Chef;192809 said:
Hi IC,

You are a special friend and your happy way is a example of His Ways. No need to open up to much just enjoy the you that is you.

Sorry it took so long for me to develop the reply to your post. I knew it was in me. It just took my brain a long time to figure out what I needed to post. It was so simple I overlooked it. You are a wonderful person with a great happy way about you.

Cheers,

Jim

Jim is right you know, IC. Your quirky bubbliness brings much cheer to this site!
 

Chef

New Member
tigerfeet;192821 said:
Jim is right you know, IC. Your quirky bubbliness brings much cheer to this site!

Hey IC use His Ways. I think of you and that makes me smile. Please take that as a true compliment that you used His Ways and that tranfered to another.

Wonderful H+L

Cheers

Jim USA
 

Chef

New Member
irish coleen;192419 said:
Nice to reflect on our lives, where we are at right now and where we are going ! I made a huge life changing decision, six months ago and now, looking back, I am sooo glad ! Today, I am a very happy person, six months ago, I was not. I believe that I no longer need to carry any burden on my own and by using His Ways, life can only get better !

Be Happy and Be Well use His Ways.

Cheers,

JIm
 
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