Dark Man,
"Death wish" was merely a figure of speech.
If "one" gets up in a man's face, the man can try to
walk away. If this "one" is not only in the man's face
but also takes a swing at him, the man has a right to
defend himself, specially trained or not.
What you say about Martial Artists, Special Forces,
Police and others being held to a much high standard,
as far as their self-defense abilities are concerned,
is right!
It is sad indeed but there are many in this world that
believe the only way to settle an argument is with their
fists. Then, of course, we have the idiots that believe the
only way is with guns, knives, etc.
"When anger is introduced into a disagreement, compassion and understanding no longer exists"!
God bless,
Mama san