Thanks any way ..but right now i dont care he could have 10 kids for all i care i have just had enough of his bull this child has been born nearly an year why were we told then news like this is important ..and i dont care how many chicks he has he could have heaps more but hey i have heard of people having 'open' marriages' ?.. any way not feeling to good today if you dont want to keep in touch any more because of what i said so be it..