Does anyone know?

I have heard several disturbing points of Steven being abusive to his former wives, I would hate to think that he would do something of that nature it would make all that he practices an embarassment and all he stands for a moot point.

being a real martial artist myself and having counseled many women/children abuse victims you see where Im going with this one. Its so bad here SE we have a slogan THERES NO EXCUSE FOR ABUSE . Mike Tyson made fun of us and was a guest of our state for several years, happened in our state (IND). where are these abuse reports coming from?. even if hes 20th dan its worthless if he abuses any woman. I was with him on FDB set I did not see that side but that doesnt mean anything. I know he has a temper(he very well may be Russian/Italian moody and tempermental is a given with both)hopefully this is ugly rumor someone can identify as such.

he was a gentleman when I saw him and thats the way I want to remember him..
 

Lotussan

I Belong To Steven
Of course no-one knows but him and them, and if he was, he would be insulting himself to admit it, however, I believe he is human with a bad temper and perhaps a bad relationship or two in his time...
His marriages failed for whatever reason, however it could not have been all his fault...His life as a star could take a big toll on a relationship, and that's a fact..It takes two people to make a marriage work...I think we should just take that however we see fit, fact is we don't know the details...I won't pass judgement on him about anything I hear, I will decide for myself out of whatever experience I would have with him, that is the only way to do things...
If he was a gentleman when you saw him, then I am sure he is...And I think he is...And if he isn't perfect, oh well...How he treated me would be the determining factor, and I personally believe, you get what you give...:) I would hope so, anyway...
 

ORANGATUANG

Wildfire
Hey nobody is perfect and having said that iam sure that if Steven has lost his cool iam sure that he would kick and smack the living daylights out of a punching bag etc.
I really hope that anyway.Iam mean we were not there when he has lost it, so i just think its just all words.I dont beleive anything like this unless its from the man himself.
He is only human and we all stuff up some where along the line.So just to end nothing
has changed i will always stick up for Steven, when the going gets tuff (people) put him down and he has always got a feind in me.Umm i hope you can understand waht i have written as iam off to bed soon..So goodnight all, and to all a goodnight.Heather.
 
Thank You ladies

Like everything else there are stories and rumors once an obsessed fan in London swore he was the father of her baby she got some great PR for awhile over there. Except one thing Stevens statement to the press " Ive never seen her before in my life" (He was still married to Kelly, I think shes Brit) later found lady lied of course shes probably living in Scotland now...cause I dont think shes welcome in London anymore.

Thats the point really bad men dont have 6 kids,he'd been found out sooner or later and his career would have suffered long before now. Being fair minded Im gonna put this as a rumor like you all say unless I hear a direct confession or see other wise he didnt do it as far as I am concerned. I just cant see it cause Aikido and Buddhism teach respect and harmony hed be the last Id consider to do that. and thats where Im standing for now.
 

Lotussan

I Belong To Steven
Well, as you probably already know, I don't believe any of that stuff, you know I respect Steven deeply, and that I believe he is a most wonderful man...His ex-wives have never said a bad word about him...I think that speaks volumes, he obviously adores children and would never hurt them...Also know that usually when someone is violent, they are usually displaying their tendencies in public as they can't help themselves, Steven has never done that far as I know, maybe he has told the press to buzz off and rightly so, I thought that was totally ok, and I think he's exciting and masculine, and an upstanding guy full of charm and character, this respect I have for him isn't just out of nowhere it has been built with time, from observing this amazing inspiring man, my feelings towards him could never be tarnished by these silly rumors...I think he is a peace loving man who wants a better world, I also know that he is a Buddhist, and violence is not the middle path...His martial arts training is an art to promote peace, that says an awful lot to me, it is self defense...Sure, he might get a little hot now and then, maybe he hollers, but hey, he's a warm blooded male...
I think he's wonderful and charming, and a real man, so he might have a temper, but I think he is very in control of himself as well...I personally will not believe these sick rumors...Like I told Tora, believe nothing unless you know it to be true, and the only one who knows is Steven and his women...Besides, what he does in his personal realationships is really none of our business...However, I don't for a minute believe that he is violent towards women...A man that big? Oh please, one seriously stern look and a girl would likely back away...It just doesn't seem true at all...He seems so sweet, a gentle giant...:)
 
Funny you should say that

I had a different situation sometimes on FDB hed go to his trailer and never followed unless he permitted anyone there , I was allowed onceonly with him present because Im a writer. But I never messed with his privacy if he went to his trailer it was a given to respect his alone time usually nap time etc., between filming.

Once someone smartass told me (unknowing pigeon) to knock on his trailer door and tell him something I thought he was expecting to hear from them or Id never done it. I knocked and heard about it I heard a quite serious thundering "Leave me alone", it must have dawned on him something was wrong a few moments later he opens the door I was quite shakn still standing there. He apologized said he just realized it was too light for a mans knock
he said " I want you to do me a favor, those guys over there tell them I want to see them right now.." and told me I might want get back cause what he had tro say to them for doing that wasnt gonna be too good..Im glad I wasnt in their shoes they were laughing snickering at me til Steven opened the door bet theyre not laughing after that.

yeah he has a temper but dont we all?
 

Amos Stevens

New Member
Well as others have said, we weren't there to say what actually occured. I will admit that there has been a lot of incidents to all be lies.
Kelly LeBrock did say in an article something along the lines about that what had occurred was nothing more than problems that other couples would have
 

Lotussan

I Belong To Steven
Yes, he's only human and I am certain he has a bad temper, bad enough to raise his voice, I am sure that happens quite often...I can get cranky as anyone myself, but I would never be violent...I don't think he would either...Let's face it some women push and push the limit during an argument as well, and they even strike men sometimes, and well, you never know, maybe Kelly got violent with him out of jealousy or something and he grabbed her as he would anyone to block a blow, I am sure he is very strong, and he probably doesn't even realize it...Anyway, I don't believe he would ever hurt her or hit her on purpose...I never did get to read the articles about them, and I really don't need to, if it is ever my place to know, I will someday hear it from him...She says it wasn't anything more than the average marital problem, so why should anyone make it out to be more than that? Not saying anyone HERE is doing that, I am talking about the media...I sure won't jump to conclusions...I think he's a passionate man, with strong feelings and emotions, and I wouldn't want him any other way, but that doesn't mean he is violent...And things can always happen that can become very misunderstood, so I will just try to keep that in mind...
 
Agreed

usually if someones that bad they would have been seen or heard by now by police or hospital records I know of none of either case with him it goes back to the statement that jeealous people make vicious lies and I believe that is so..my verdict..not guilty..still stands.
 
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