I guess the main question for a few (or not that few...?) here is whether his heart is free and his bed empty or not... rather than whether he is the faithful kind or not. Am I wrong...?
Personally, I don't "dream" because I am evidently not the type he would "fall" for, and happily married and not interested in bigamy (not for ethical reasons, mind you, but because I don't like very complex situations <G>)... but I find him extremely irresistible anyway, and I find all the comments about how attractive he is very sweet. I strongly doubt that he would take umbrage or offence at Heather, Lotussan and other's not-precisely-always-platonic <BG> love declarations... WHY would he? Being regarded as a sex-symbol and nothing else must be quite frustrating, but it is not the case here: they/we are obviously not attracted to him only by/for his looks, so.... Dreaming is not a sin!
Regarding the "monogamy" question, I thought the following might be of interest:
According to some quite recent (U.S.) polls, 60% of the married men and 50% of the married women *admit* that they are not "faithful", and 75% of these persons do not feel guilty about it... Apparently, 13% of the "deceived" spouses have no clue at all, whereas 60% suspect "something"... and once the "unfaithfulness" has been "exposed", only 24% of the couples do split....