Goodbye

I have been very busy and have two jobs, had planned on finishing my Black belt ( I had 2 left) my mother had cancer and I had to quit classes to care for her. I thought Ill get back when she gets better.

she did not get better this is the first anniversary of her death. My Grandmaster said if anything happened to her I could talk to him and he would do whatever he could to console me..that was so nice he said the dojang was always my home and he and his my family..I was only 39 then and had few left.

I had lost touch unfortunately taking care of her for three years I wanted to talk to my master tell him now she was gone Id like to return..his son answered..I was in shock my master always answers his own phone if he did not he was gone...as in deceased.

I talked to someone there they said yes he went last July right before my mother on 9/11/03 he had liver cancer.and taught up to the end in his 50th year. of training..I could not pay respects it was too late but I can honor the spiritual wish that to talk about someone is to bring them back in spirit .

his name was Grandmaster Kwan Sung Lee 9th Dan TKD extremely dedicated and rarest of the rare having that balance of compassion yet a tiger when you didnt listen..and very strong for someone only about 140 , I was tripped once by another black belt accidental)and headed for the floor (I am quite large at about 190) all the sudden a fist grabs my dobok (uniform) and singlehandly my master was holding me off the floor and let me down easy although in his late 60s he came across the room from over 20 ft away when I last looked .. just like that in moments to stop my fall he was very very observant.

His sons will take over..the school will remain as his spirit shines for all to see
I will teach the next generation and the next..its the least I could do for a man who wholeheartedly and without a second thought gave most of his life to making our world a better place for us and the children and those to come
his work was not in vain but a path of understanding..I am glad I had my 4 years with hjim and wished for more but not to be..so I say thank you (Komapsupnida) and watch over us as we keep your spirit alive..some people are just too special to forget..he has a site hs sons did that if you want to see him @ leestaekwondo.com he is on home page.
point is he was an assistant and advisor to many thing including Olympics (IOC)
hopefully we shall meet again

SAS GA
 

Rodrigo

Lucky Member
I'm very sorry for your recent losts, please take my condolences.

I'm very close to my sensei as well, I'm really glad to be his student he is a wonderful human being.

As hard as things on our lives may be, we should remain strong and accept that some of our loved ones, unfortunately, one day, will leave us.

I have no more words to say to you, I just want to wish you to be in peace of mind right now, and if you need anyone to share some of your thoughts, you can send me a PM anytime.

Sincerely

Rodrigo
 

kickingbird

candle lighter
SAS-
Sorry to hear about your losses.
I am also a TKD student and even though my life has led me in many directions I will always hold a special place for my Grandmaster. It is very possible that Grandmaster Lee was known to the instructor I studied under - Grandmaster Sun Yi in Kansas. I traveled to quite a few midwest tournaments, in Iowa, Missouri and Kansas. The grandmasters and masters would attend each others' tournament and testings - and would be judged for testings. I remember a Grandmaster Lee from Kansas City area but don't recall his full name. Anyway, it is always sad when they pass because they do so much for so many. The best we can so is keep going in remembrance of them and their teachings.
Sending a hug to you - remember to live on in the tradition you studied for that will honor the Grandmaster, and your mother also.
Having lost my husband about this time last year, my mother several years before that, and my father at 15, I can understand the loss one feels when those we love begin passing out of our lives. Staying firm in our faith, whatever that may be, helps fill the gaps left by their passing.
Know that the Family of Human Beings is always around us.
If the world falls down around us, if all those we love pass away or disappear, if our family and friends fade out of our lives, there is always within our Hearts that most Compassionate and loving Creator who is always there.
 

katw_03

New Member
SAS, take care, we will miss you. I always enjoy
your input here on the forum. Please accept my
sympathy of your recent losses. :(
 

suziwong

Administrator
Staff member
I am very sorry for you losess SAs, and please take my condolances.

We will miss you.
Take care my friend

sincerely

suzi
 
Thank You

To all here
I will remain on the site when I can I just wanted to say goodbye to my Grandmaster. I was offered to assist with the childrens class because I was so close to him..I will accept.My Goodbye was for him . might have been a misunderstanding there.

Thannk you for your kind words...they are most appreciated..I did get 4 happy years to tell you what kind of man he was at our Christmas party we held at the dojo after testing wed come back with a pitch in buffet a couple hours later.

there were many adults wanting to talk with him he had such a wonderful spirit.. and they did at the party but the children felt they could not compete with him talking with grown ups..and were unhappy and sat to the other side many of us st cross legged with our plates (you MA people know this one chairs optional) I came to him as he got his plate I said they miss you
they were kind of brooding..he looks at them adults still talking to him he nodded toward them for me to follow and he sat down with them on a chair and ate with them..."Christmas is children " he said.. " I have the rest of the year for the others".

So true

SAS GA
 

KATHYPURDOM

Steven Seagal Fan
I am very sorry to hear what has happened to you SAS. The loss of someone that close to you is a tragic thing. I am sure that most people here have loss someone close and feels the pain that you do.
I loss my mom the day after my husband gave me my engagement ring. I never got to tell her.
All I am trying to say is that you have to be strong for yourself. Live life knowing that you made a difference in their lives.
 

Serena

Administrator
Thank you, SAS, for sharing your thoughts and feelings on Grandmaster Kwan Sung Lee. He sounds like a wonderful person who had a major impact on your life, as well as many other lives. How fortunate you are to have known him!
 
thanks Serena

How right you are..he was indeed a very special man Im hppy they kept the school we closed the other one because it was just too much he was always there and after he went everybody started showing up at the other bigger dojo (the other one was smaller and more personal)..so they agreed to have the one his other sons have the other two dojos but further away. one in FLA.
but he was here with us..Thanks!
 

joyful

New Member
I´m sorry to hear about your losses.
They will live on as long as you keep them in mind and value those memories...
I hope that you´ll be strong whenever you have to be and that you´ll know when it´s time to allow yourself to be weak, because that´s ok, too (and very important somtimes)!

best wishes
 

Amos Stevens

New Member
You're right on your expression of saying goodbye & of thanks to your Sensei by bringing this here-SAS.

I too would like to add my condolences to you & yours
 
Honor

you couldnt see his wall for the plaques of gratitude from all the organizations and charities he was involved with. Including assisting with coaches with the IOC (Olympics) he was a 9th Dan and senior among his peers in US and even KOREA. (known for being picky)He taught over 20 years in Korea before coming here in 74.

yes Id say he went with honor and then some....
 

pantera

New Member
I'm sorry for your losts and condolescences.
death is part of life but this fact doesn't make death easier to accept. Anyway you 've got my support (even we don't know each other).
 

Aikilove

Old member aikidoka
Littledragon, do you really think your comment made it easier? Put someone you love in the same sentence you just made and see if it was a good comment.

/J
 
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