Heather, it takes two for that to happen, doesn't it?
What if Steven didn't want to?
Besides, this is the love thread, not the sex thread...
When I say I love Steven I mean that I love him...
And I will always will love Steven...
But I want to wait to be loved back before sex comes into the picture...
So I guess I'll wait until I am an old maid rather than have sex with someone
I don't love...
I don't care if I die a virgin, so people even say I'm weird to have waited so long, but that's ok...
I just don't want to have any regrets about someone using me for sex, that's all...
Maybe saying things like you just said makes Steven feel like he's a piece of meat, and that he's nothing more than that, and that's not good...
Sure I find him sexy too, but it's because of a lot of things, those feelings come natural, but we don't have to act on them...
He's much more than that to me, he's the one I adore in every way...
Maybe I won't ever get to meet Steven, but that won't change my love for him...
And I do mean that I love him as a human being, and for all that he is, he's not just a sex object, no way...
Thanks for this thread, Heather...
At least we can say what we want, huh?
I just think there is a difference between the two things, and that they should still always go together, love and sex I mean...
Please don't be mad at what I said, because you know you are my sis...
I know you love him, too...