The art of peace

ninj

New Member
Hi all

Is it just me, but don't you find it strange that as martial artists we spend years and years learning an art to perfection, that we never want to use?

I have been training know for 22 years and have never had to use it, nor would I want to. I began my training in Karatedo then JuJitsu because I was bullied at school. When I gained my 1st Dan in 1984 all the bullies thought I was going to exact my revenge, but I had to inform them that wouldn't be the case.

They all thought that you would gain experience and skill and then go around picking fights. Even provoked I would walk away. I feel that you would cheapen and degrade all the years of hard work and sacrifice just to prove to a drunken idiot what you can do.

Fights these days are so messy and often end in serious injury that could lead to a convinction. If it came out that you were a 7th Dan at Karate they would throw the book at you.

It's not a case of 'You need to prove you can handle yourself in the real world' you show respect and walk away knowing in your heart that you would win. I mean, we train against each other in the Dojo and perform techniques on partners who know what's coming, so imagine a technique against a drunken lout who hasn't a clue! And don't they always telegraph their punches in a 'windmill' style?

The martial arts is as it says 'An art' and is all about self belief. The motto of our association - The International Budo Association' is 'They Can Conquer Who Believe They Can'. We all preserve the true nature of the art and all should ambassador the true discipline that we learn over the years.

May you all prosper and enjoy your own martial art for many many years.

A bit early I know but I would like to wish all members a very Happy Christmas and a Prosperous New Year.

Best wishes

Ninj
 

Purplelotus1

Active Member
Ninj just from the beginning of your story I would say that you have used it not to fight but to promote peace, wisdom and compassion.
 

TenshinWarrior

Masakatsu Agatsu
Purplelotus1 said:
Ninj just from the beginning of your story I would say that you have used it not to fight but to promote peace, wisdom and compassion.


...and to simply become a better human being...

This is the reason why I like this phrase so much: "Masakatsu agatsu" which translates to "True victory is victory over oneself", but achieving such state of mind is not in a course of days or even months, it takes years..
 

Margo1215

New Member
ninj, I bow to you, your post is rare and shows the sign of a true Martial Artist. (Or what I think one should be) Hope you never have to use it to defend yourself. Take care.
Margo
 

ninj

New Member
Thank you Margo

Margo1215 said:
ninj, I bow to you, your post is rare and shows the sign of a true Martial Artist. (Or what I think one should be) Hope you never have to use it to defend yourself. Take care.
Margo


You too, have a good Christmas.

Kind regards

Ninj
 

latinojazz

Well-Known Member
ninj said:
Hi all

I feel that you would cheapen and degrade all the years of hard work and sacrifice just to prove to a drunken idiot what you can do.

A bit early I know but I would like to wish all members a very Happy Christmas and a Prosperous New Year.

Best wishes

Ninj

For me is hard to answer because I used to be the drunken idiot.Then, I must to prove my technique with another guy more drunked than me, if not.....

Happy christmas and best wishes to you too

Love everybody in the site
 

Purplelotus1

Active Member
TenshinWarrior said:
...and to simply become a better human being...

This is the reason why I like this phrase so much: "Masakatsu agatsu" which translates to "True victory is victory over oneself", but achieving such state of mind is not in a course of days or even months, it takes years..

A very good friend used to tell me "Life is simple, people complicate it"
 

shihonage

New Member
This brings to mind :

Many people who are new to the martial arts labor under the fantasy that when they get proficient they will be able to "really kick ass." Likewise, many who begin psychotherapy imagine that "cured" means they'll be able to boss people around. Having spent much of their lives afraid to assert themselves to "get what they want," they imagine that their new power will give them the nerve or self-confidence to get back at all the people and situations which have made them feel small all these years. They carry with them a great deal of anger which they cannot release, and it is this anger which directs their fantasy of revenge.

What they don't realize is that it is really their lack of connection to themselves that prevents them from functioning well. If their training in martial arts, or their therapy, is "successful," they appear quite different from their original fantasy. Having found their spirit and experienced their energy, they never quite get around to "kicking ass." The need for revenge is gone because their reconnection with their own centers has put them back into connection with all life.
- Terry Dobson and Victor Miller, Aikido in Everyday Life
 

Donald Lee Wilkey

A Steven Seagal fan
Fellow members, do any of you know why Craig Robertson hasn't answered any of my private messages to him and not displayed any of my recent posts and threads?
don wilkey
 

Administrator

Administrator
Staff member
don wilkey said:
Fellow members, do any of you know why Craig Robertson hasn't answered any of my private messages to him and not displayed any of my recent posts and threads?
don wilkey
Hi Don, sorry i have no private messages from you.
 

latinojazz

Well-Known Member
Purplelotus1 said:
A very good friend used to tell me "Life is simple, people complicate it"

This is one of the concepts that Steven says in BOTB, simple is good...I wish my life could be simple(Or something similar, scene in the buddishm temple to his partner)

Yes, I believe simple is good, life is simple, to be happy is simple, but we complicate everything we do.
 
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