The Getting to Know you Thread (part 3)

pantera

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ORANGATUANG said:
MEN!!!!!!!! ...Boy am i glad iam single ....But its an shame girl we cant live with them and cant live with out them isnt it?...its his loss girl you are worth more then this guy that you were talking about..But if he is still interested in you do what i love doing "play hard to get"...it works all the time...whoopssss
let that slip didnt i?...bye Pantera take it easy..

thanx for your support heather. and ou're right, we can't live with them but we can't live without them!
anyway, there's a song saying " don't make me chase you, even doves have pride". He had his chances!!!too late now. I erased his last message and i haven't his phone number anymore.
I don't make any efforts any more for men!
 

Purplelotus1

Active Member
Pantera, I think you may be setting your expectations too high. Men are not capable of meeting most of any womans expectations. We always have to settle or compromise. LOL
 

ORANGATUANG

Wildfire
You too Anneliese...ohhh what ami saying i dont have Thanks giving ..but have an safe one girl...That guy its his loss Pantera sounds to me like he is an dead beat any way...dont ever give up girl..catch you later i have been up since 4am this morning and been on the go, go, go..went to my school presentation day and got my certificates..thats 8 i have till next year...iam going to play pool tonight soooo need an little kip..see you girl take care.
 

pantera

New Member
have a little bit of rest Heather, don't push your body and yourself too far. I'm sure it's not what you wanna hear but your body is not at its best yet.
I don't wanna learn that you hurt yourself or anything like that.

Take care and rest a little bit after all those activities. ;)

thanx for your support. ;)
 

pantera

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Purplelotus1 said:
Pantera, I think you may be setting your expectations too high. Men are not capable of meeting most of any womans expectations. We always have to settle or compromise. LOL

Here, it's not a question of expectations, it's a questions of respect.
We planned to go to the cinema together. he seemed interested.
He told me when he had days off. We exchanged couples of messages
The last thing i asked him is to tell me when he wanted to go. That's all. So, i gave him the choice and i was the one who made efforts.
But he never answered my last question. No news from him anymore.
So for me it's a lack of respect. If suddenly he wasn't interested any longer, he could have told it. It's a chance that i don't trust men, so i hadn't booked my day off. Lucky me, i would have wasted my time and a day off.

Well thanx for your concern purple.:) It's always intersting to have someone else's point of view. ;)
Sure that sometime women expect too much but in my case that's a long time that i know it's useless to expext anything from a man.
 

Pandora

Member
I must be one of the lucky ones. Just celebrated my 36th wedding anniversary yesterday!!! We started off as best friends with no expectations of each other. After this length of time, we are like a comfortable pair of old slippers LOLOL!!!
Love,
Pandora
 

ORANGATUANG

Wildfire
Congratulations!!!! Pandora i lasted 20 years..but 36 "WOW'...Ohhh pair of old slippers my foot...Heres too many, many more girl...
 

pantera

New Member
Pandora said:
I must be one of the lucky ones. Just celebrated my 36th wedding anniversary yesterday!!! We started off as best friends with no expectations of each other. After this length of time, we are like a comfortable pair of old slippers LOLOL!!!
Love,
Pandora
36 years, congratulations Pandora. It seems that yyou found a rare pearl.

I wish you more years together. :)
 

Pandora

Member
LOLOL!!! Pantera - I'm the rare pearl LOLOL!!! He's a Vietnam veteran who suffered PTSD for many years, but he has recovered well although he also has asthma, but that is under control too. I think making his environment as calm and peaceful as possible helps. I got him into watching Steven's films and he has been "converted" LOLOL!!!
Love,
Pandora
 

Purplelotus1

Active Member
pantera said:
Here, it's not a question of expectations, it's a questions of respect.
We planned to go to the cinema together. he seemed interested.
He told me when he had days off. We exchanged couples of messages
The last thing i asked him is to tell me when he wanted to go. That's all. So, i gave him the choice and i was the one who made efforts.
But he never answered my last question. No news from him anymore.
So for me it's a lack of respect. If suddenly he wasn't interested any longer, he could have told it. It's a chance that i don't trust men, so i hadn't booked my day off. Lucky me, i would have wasted my time and a day off.

Well thanx for your concern purple.:) It's always intersting to have someone else's point of view. ;)
Sure that sometime women expect too much but in my case that's a long time that i know it's useless to expext anything from a man.


Of you are right. Mutual respect is important and in this particular scenario just plain manners. He should have let you know one way or the other at least about the cinema. So if he is this way now you have to assume that he is this way always and wouldn't be worth pursuing anyway. So it was his loss your gain. Peace
 

pantera

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Purplelotus1 said:
Of you are right. Mutual respect is important and in this particular scenario just plain manners. He should have let you know one way or the other at least about the cinema. So if he is this way now you have to assume that he is this way always and wouldn't be worth pursuing anyway. So it was his loss your gain. Peace

thanx purple. You're right, in this kind of case i gave up right away. It's just not worth!

Take care. :)
 

pantera

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Pandora said:
LOLOL!!! Pantera - I'm the rare pearl LOLOL!!! He's a Vietnam veteran who suffered PTSD for many years, but he has recovered well although he also has asthma, but that is under control too. I think making his environment as calm and peaceful as possible helps. I got him into watching Steven's films and he has been "converted" LOLOL!!!
Love,
Pandora

what a nice and sweet woman you seem to be. He's lucky indeed. ;)
 

ORANGATUANG

Wildfire
Whats Pantera up to this weekend?...bet being an busy little vegemite i bet...iam busy doing some cleaning up Saturday and going to the movies Sunday...catch you next week girl...
 

pantera

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ORANGATUANG said:
Whats Pantera up to this weekend?...bet being an busy little vegemite i bet...iam busy doing some cleaning up Saturday and going to the movies Sunday...catch you next week girl...

Well, i didn't party! I don't do it that much any more.
Besides i had to type some notes of my work. So, i worked late friday night (after coming back home). I haven't finished yet.
Saturday, i had to wake up early to go to my dutch classe and i was so tird in the afternoon that i just fell asleep.
On sunday, cleanin, cleaning, cleaning....and then i went to my cousin to give my godsons their gift.
We had nice time and i had a talk with my cousin. It made me feel a little bit better. :)
So how was the movie? What was it? (sorry if you mentionned it somewhere else but i have no time to read all the posts since friday!)
 

Pandora

Member
I've promised myself that the Xmas tree will be put up and decorated this weekend. It is so hot in my part of NZ and the tourist season started early.
Orangutuang - vegemite is good for women with all the B vitamins LOL!
Bet it's hot in Aussie too. We are in for a drought this summer so will be
ultra busy with our local rural fireforce too. Still, I will keep on reading and posting on this site - best in the world. Wish some would understand that Steven is getting older, bigger and slower, just like me!!!
 

ORANGATUANG

Wildfire
I was abit pissed off earlier today i took an movie back to my local video store and was looking for stevens movies that were there i asked the guy behind the counter and he said he aint an very popular actor...well i saw "red" and said what an load of rubbish (not what i really said) ..he said that they wont be getting any more of his in ..soooooooo looks like i will be going some where else...
 

pantera

New Member
poor heather. It seems that there are more and more people thinking that ss is not good. I'm sad just like you. He's a great man.
It gets on my nerve when i wanna buy dvds and i see there's no dvd of him.
And i had the same problem than you in dvd store. i wanted to rent one of the last dvds of ss and i couldn't find one. So i asked the guy and he told me that following him, the dvds of ss were worse and worse so he hadn't bought any of the new ones. I was pissed too. besides i thought, the client was the king and that the shops were buying every movie just to let the client choose what he wanna watch. Well, i was wrong!
 

hofmae

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pantera said:
poor heather. It seems that there are more and more people thinking that ss is not good. I'm sad just like you. He's a great man.
It gets on my nerve when i wanna buy dvds and i see there's no dvd of him.
And i had the same problem than you in dvd store. i wanted to rent one of the last dvds of ss and i couldn't find one. So i asked the guy and he told me that following him, the dvds of ss were worse and worse so he hadn't bought any of the new ones. I was pissed too. besides i thought, the client was the king and that the shops were buying every movie just to let the client choose what he wanna watch. Well, i was wrong!

Keep cool, this is basically not everywhere like this. In Switzerland and in most countries his movies are still in the top ten (even if everybody knows that this movies aren't that good), so as long as his movies are made so much money, you will able to buy and rent it. And i think he has enough fans that every money is successfull even when only the fans buy it.
 
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