For the sake of understanding I don't see it as "slamming on the brakes" on you. You have express your belief plenty of times, and I haven't even interfered. What I meant was that the question was about what those who don't believe in god.....well...here it is again:
Julie:What does a person believe in concerning the after life if they do not believe in God?
I answered because I think it will help you/us understand where others are comming from.
You said: What do you mean by you just keep coming back until you get it right? Can you, I mean get it right?
For me, I am not coming back. Once is enough. When I die I am going home to be with my Lord Jesus Christ.
Above you are answering me as if I was saying that my belief applies to you.
I was just saying where I come from not that you have to accept it. That's what I meant by sticking to the question.
I haven't given you hard time at all...you take things into heart. If you want to avoid misunderstanding just ask what I mean if you are not sure. Nobody makes our life hard for us, but ourselves.
I have no problem with beings friends...I have friends of all kinds.
In Buddhism we see adversity/enemies/harships as an opportunity for learning, and we end up being grateful for having the opportunity
to overcome adversity. It makes us better equipt to deal with similar situations in the future. In the end our (perceived) enemies end up being our greatest teachers. There's no greater compassion.
Julie Scarborough said:
Jalu,
How did we get from asking and answer time to bonking heads? I never asked for this. I was innocently asking questions. I put one comment in on what "I" am going to do when "I" die. You slammed on the brakes and got in my face. Please Jalu, let me participate here too. You have been giving me a hard time from day one and I want it to stop. I am willing to look past this and be friends, are you? I thought we had already got past this before by computer crashed. Let's shake and share input please. A friend, REALLY! I mean it. Julie