Hi Heather,sorry i hear by your girlfriend her dad,i now what it is
i lost my dad to in 1997 ,and i mis him very much.
And for your girlfriend is that the same,and i lost my mother and my sister 4 years ago and i mist him so much, and i cant anderstand your Girlfriend ,when you lost someone where love that person whit all your hard ,this is very paine full my friend.
And you think on him very much and you cry,and when is christmas and Newyear you think on them to.
SORRY i hear that my friend ,i gone pray for them.
KIsses and Take Care.
Lutje.