"Steven We Love You"(off-topic)

[Jampa]

Thats one thing that really gives me the willies you know when you are attracted to some one it shouldnt be the look, shape,age of the person its what you feel on the inside that counts...thats just what i think anyway..As for Steven i love him for his mind, body and soul..he is handsome but he could be plain as the ace of spades and it would still be the same the way i feel about him...ohh i have had an great day today i went down to the plant nursery and got my self some really beautiful plants..and i have an table on my front verdah which i have gone to town on with pot plants..so its an start i guess..I have still got one week before i go back to school so i better get crackin on other things..I have been told here that i have an good heart and iam caring as for queit nah thats to boring for me i like people to know iam here...thanks Jampa you sound like an very wise woman..thanks.....

Unfortunately the look is quite often the first thing that attracts our attention... but then it does not "suffice" to hold it long <G>, it takes something deeper. Of course we don't love people for their looks, otherwise I suppose we'd love Mister or Miss Universe more than anybody else... Duh! <LOL>

I meant "quiet" as "serene"... it doesn't prevent you from having fun! It just prevents you from wasting your energy on unimportant matters... Fun IS important!

As to sounding wise... well, that's it exactly: ***sound***... my fuse is way too short and my head way too hot, there aren't many chances that I reach Wisdom in this life! Theory and practice are two different things, alas.....

The best of luck and much satisfaction to you with those plants! that's good vibes for your Home... constructive energies!

Jampa

 

[Littledragon]

Steven Seagal is the best!

 

[ORANGATUANG]

Thats right littledragon...number 1...always.

 

[ORANGATUANG]

Just something short and sweet ..good night steven may my dreams be of our two hearts beating in the heat of the night............ohhh speaking of hearts i heard that you had another song coming out or being done or whatever its called "One Heart" lovely title but thats you...

 

[Littledragon]

Steven Rules!!

Steven Seagal kicks major ass!!!

 

[ORANGATUANG]

Yep no matter how big or small he will kick there asse's one and all..ohhh iam an poet now!!!..

 

[Jalu]

Oh yes...

Still love...SS

 

[ORANGATUANG]

Yep Jalu..THERE CAN ONLY BE ONE!!!!!!..and girl he is enough for us ....iam not greedy really iam not...

 

[Littledragon]

Yep no matter how big or small he will kick there asse's one and all..ohhh iam an poet now!!!..

LOL funny. But execpt for Rikson.

 

[Jules]

Heather... you can't "erase" anybody who played such a big role in your life... don't even try to "erase" him, nor think that you actually did it, you'd be lying to yourself... If you really loved him, you did not love a liar or a jerk, you loved the part of him that was "good"... the worst people have some good - perhaps very deep inside, perhaps very well hidden, perhaps not big... but still, it is there... somewhere... and that is what you loved. You can't throw your love to the trash bin, it would be like spitting on your own feelings and this could do you more harm than all his "bad sides" did/do. He wasn't faithful...? you were... then be faithful to yourself. He hurted you? don't hurt yourself some more by letting his "acts" dirty up something that was always pure inside *you*. He can't destroy you, only *you* can... don't let this happen.
Free your heart from all the negative feelings that can only harm *you*.
Go out and pick flowers, or buy some, bring beauty into your home.
Pamper yourself, get to learn the real you... we tend to forget about ourselves when we live for someone else or for our couple rather than for ourselves... the woman you knew years ago has slowly changed, and she has changed a lot lately. Who is she now? *She* is what matters. Not the wife, not the ex-wife... the Woman herself, the one who is One and Whole and does not need anyone to be Herself. Get to know her and love her, this woman who is You... Get rid of everything that is the past... Open a suitcase, real or virtual, and put inside everything that does not have a reality in your Present, that you don't need for the Future. Also put in there all the wounds, resentment, bitterness, whatever, all the broken dreams... you don't need those, they do not belong to you, they are not You... and get rid of that suitcase! Then, you can really meet someone... you don't *need* to, but you will... maybe someone you already know, maybe someone you never saw before... Whoever, you don't want him to fall in love with the ex-wife, you want him to love the Real You... until you free yourself from the past, it's not possible.
I'm sending all the Light and Love and good energies I can gather... and big Hugs too.
Jampa
P.S.: As to having a Child... : I wish to remind you that you are only 41, my Dear...! ;-))))))

Heather, Jampa put it well. I couldn't have said it better.
You are in my thoughts and prayers more than you know girl!

 

[ORANGATUANG]

Thanks Julie..iam abit upset with an freind of mine right now,well i thought she was an freind...Iam speaking of Rebbecca i had to put her in her place today and it hurt because we both have been through alot together or so i thought......any way if she is or was an freind well they just dont do that to one and other...no this is going to take awhile to forgive..and if she wants to apoligise for what she said then she knows where i live iam not making the first move....

 

[KATHYPURDOM]

Heather I hope that it works out for you and Rebbecca.
Steven if you do come here and read these posts, I just want you to know that since I don't come here that often, you still are the best.

 

[Littledragon]

Seagal Rules!!

Seagal is king!

 

[Jules]

You're welcome

Thanks Julie..iam abit upset with an freind of mine right now,well i thought she was an freind...Iam speaking of Rebbecca i had to put her in her place today and it hurt because we both have been through alot together or so i thought......any way if she is or was an freind well they just dont do that to one and other...no this is going to take awhile to forgive..and if she wants to apoligise for what she said then she knows where i live iam not making the first move....

If she is a true friend, she will make it right. Chin up girl. There is light at the end of the tunnel. There will always be trials in our life, but they never last forever. I have had my share these past few months too. I do not always tell anyone what they are.

 

[ORANGATUANG]

Yes i think that i might keep my troubles to my self from now on i will just come here to see whats happening with him and what ever else is going on...so you wont here any more of Heathers dramas any more....

 

[TDWoj]

Yes i think that i might keep my troubles to my self from now on i will just come here to see whats happening with him and what ever else is going on...so you wont here any more of Heathers dramas any more....

Heather, I don't think that's what Julie meant. You know you can come here and share anything that's bothering you with us, any time. You have a lot of friends here who can offer you support when you're feeling down, ideas on how to help yourself feel better, and just generally a lot of shoulders who don't mind being cried on. We're here round the clock, not just on sunny days or in good times. You can let off steam here you might not be able to do anywhere else - so don't let us go!

 

[ORANGATUANG]

I wont let any one go here...Iam not that easy to get rid of...............not that any one wants me gone i might be an pain in the ass at times but arent we all..but i know what you are saying TD, and julie iam sorry that i mis understood you...Ohhh TD,are you sure you want to let it rip if iam REALLY pissed off..but thats what i have freinds here for to talk too and for them to listen and that goes viser-verser..(both ways)..

 

[Serena]

Yes i think that i might keep my troubles to my self from now on i will just come here to see whats happening with him and what ever else is going on...so you wont here any more of Heathers dramas any more....

I understand what you mean about coming here to discuss your personal life, Heather. Why don't you come join us in the "Further Off-Topic Discussion" sub-forum of the Off-Topic section? There you'll find the threads like "What's on your mind", "What's your mood", "Song of the day, etc." That is the perfect location for things like this. There are a bunch of your friends there already who want to know what's going on in your life and it gives us the chance to support each other and keep in touch without going off-topic elsewhere. This is a post I had just last night to Nico to show you how to get there. Several more people have joined just this week. Hope to see you there too, Heather!

And I've sent you that PM. Hope it helps.

Hi, Nico. That thread is in the Further Off-Topic sub-forum of Off Topic. Craig has made that a "usergroup" now, a fact which many people still don't understand or are even aware of its existence. I just explained to another person this week what it was and they've since joined.

There are several of us who post in there regularly. It would be great to see you in there also! There you'll find a bunch of other topics that help keep us together as friends and not go off-topic in other threads. Some of the threads include "What's on your mind", "What's your mood", "Song of the day", "Picture of the day", etc.

You only need to join once and it's easy. If you don't, you are unable to view all the topics in that sub-forum or participate. Go to the Off-Topic forum. At the very top you'll see the four sub-forums. Go to "Further Off-Topic Discussion", then under that click "Join here". Once inside, just click the next button as intructed and you're in. Any questions, let us know.

Look forward to seeing you in there!

 

[KATHYPURDOM]

Heather we are all family here and that's what family does, helps out eachother. I have kept things to myself a lot, and not mentioned them here, but the times that I have said something about what is going on with me, it's nice to know that my family here will cheer me up.
Thanks to all those who have.

 

[Jules]

Maybe I did not word myself well

Heather we are all family here and that's what family does, helps out eachother. I have kept things to myself a lot, and not mentioned them here, but the times that I have said something about what is going on with me, it's nice to know that my family here will cheer me up.
Thanks to all those who have.

Heather, This is what I was trying to say.(read Kathys post) Sometimes I share it(trials) and sometimes I do not. A lot of times I am thankful I do because a lot of people here have come to be like family to me. I will admit that there are things in my life that even my family does not know about. I just am not ALWAYS comfortable sharing. Please do not think the worst all the time. I would NEVER say anything to deliberatly hurt someone.