babygirl;187933 said:would you change Steven if you could if yes what would you change about him ?
Sue;190185 said:The only effective way to change a person is to change them for a new person.
And we wouldn't swap Steve for anyone would we?
Depends on the situation and how much you love her.
If you love her enough, stay and adopt.
If she didnt want kids at all, that would be tough.